Are You Done Playing Small?
Let’s Make This The Moment YOU FINALLY Come FIRST!
How much longer will you continue sacrificing your own joy just to keep everyone else comfortable?
When deep down you know you’re uncomfortable with your life right now?
It’s time to reclaim your time, your energy, and your creative power by putting yourself first.
This is for Artistic Directors & Independent Creative Women like you.
Who are ready to build the habit of prioritising yourself.
So you can live your life on your terms
Why This Is For You
You’re ready to say NO to what drains you and YES to the opportunities that light you up.
It’s time to stop sacrificing your joy and energy for others.
You’re done with feeling frustrated and disconnected.
Trapped by your success, the life you’ve built no longer fills you with the purpose and joy it once did.
You want more than just success. You crave freedom, creative fulfilment and personal joy. While you’ve achieved fabulous things, how you show up today doesn't serve you the way it once did…. And that's OK.
What You’ll Get
For 4 weeks, I’ll be your
Self-First Instigator.
Your personal coach guiding you, as you kickstart the habit of putting yourself first.
Here’s what you can expect:
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1) Create space for exciting creative opportunities – the ones that fulfil you financially, mentally, and creatively.
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2) Trust yourself again – so you’re brave in your decisions and confident in your direction.
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3) Make time for personal experiences that nourish your soul – because your joy matters just as much as your creativity.
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4) Learn to say NO to the wrong things and YES to the right ones – so you can take control of your time and energy.
“The obstacle that Vicki supported me to navigate and overcome was saying no to an exciting and somewhat prestigious opportunity that I had thought I wanted, but when it came to it, it wasn’t the right time for many reasons. Vicki helped me to have confidence in my decision making and trust my body’s reaction to the choice. She also helped me be less afraid of saying no to opportunities generally…Feeling more empowered to say no and set clear boundaries helped me value my time, energy and what I said yes to much more clearly.”
— Alison Thomas, Choreographer | Producer
Nothing worth having is easy.
Just know, I’m here to walk this path to YOUR FREEDOM with you.
Which is a life where you come FIRST. Yep, yes YOU. x
“I was mentally blocked in regard to my personal aspirations and confidence as a woman. I have now stepped on to my path of greatness, I have found my confidence in believing in myself and I'm experiencing new opportunities daily and loving them. Vicki, Thank you for your time, thank you for listening.”
-Selma Nicholls, Award Winning Casting Director and Founder of Looks Like Me Casting
Here’s How We’ll Work Together
4 private, 60-minute coaching sessions
(one per week):
Together, we’ll clear out what no longer serves you, focus on what you truly want, and create the actions to get you there.
4 weekly 20-minute wellbeing check-ins
(one per week):
We’ll explore how you’re doing physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually as you begin to believe that what you want is possible for you.
Daily reminders, questions, and affirmations to keep you focused, motivated, and in motion.
Personal recommendations for books, podcasts, or other tools to support your journey.
Private Courage Zone
on WhatsApp:
Need a boost or some guidance between sessions? You’ll have direct access to me for additional support.
It’s time for YOU to go from
‘One Day’ to ‘Day ONE’.
I’ll be your support, as you begin to kickstart the habit of putting you first.
Here’s how you’ll achieve this with the, Clarity and Courage 4- week Coaching Intensive…
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Week 1: Reflect
Look back at where you’ve come from and release what’s no longer for you.
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Week 2: Reset
Get clear on what’s true for you now and what you want for your future.
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Week 3: Redesign
We’ll map out new habits and practices that align with your vision.
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Week 4: Rollout
Put your plan into action and build momentum toward the life you desire.
What Will Your Life Look Like After?
Imagine waking up each day confident in your decisions, excited for the opportunities ahead, and fully in control of how you spend your time and energy.
You’ll have the clarity, courage, and self-trust to create a life that’s creatively fulfilling and personally rewarding.
Meet Your Self-First Instigator
Hey, I’m Vicki Igbokwe-Ozoagu*
*pronounced EE.BOK.WAY - OH.ZAH.GU.
Yeah, that’s it. You Got it! x
Like you… I used to think I had to do it all too.
Juggling responsibilities, meeting other people’s expectations, and putting myself last had become a way of life. I thought that if I just worked harder or made myself more available to others, somehow, I’d find the fulfilment I was craving.
But here’s the thing: the more I gave, the more exhausted I became. My creativity suffered, my energy was drained, and I felt like I was losing the connection to myself. Sound familiar?
I reached a point where I knew something had to change. I realised that I couldn’t pour into my creativity, my relationships, or my life if I wasn’t pouring into myself first.
That’s when I made the decision to put myself first, unapologetically.
It wasn’t easy at first. Learning to say NO to the things that didn’t serve me, and YES to what I truly wanted, felt uncomfortable. But with every decision to prioritise my needs, I felt lighter, more energised, and more aligned with who I really am.
And that’s when everything changed.
The more I leaned into my own Self-First habit, the more opportunities opened up creatively, financially, and personally. I found myself creating better work, having more meaningful connections, and, most importantly, feeling fulfilled and excited about my life.
Now, I help Artistic Directors and Independent Creative Women like you do the same.
As your Self-First Instigator, I’m here to guide you through your own transformation, one that allows you to reclaim your time, your energy, and your creative power. Because I know what’s possible when you stop living on everyone else’s terms and start building the life you want.
You don’t have to choose between your creativity and your personal well-being. You can have both. And I’m here to help you make that happen.
If you’re ready to kickstart the habit of putting yourself first and create a life that reflects who you truly are, I’m ready to walk alongside you.
Let’s begin this journey together.
Vicki! You have walked with me on my journey to my new season, your wisdom, encouragement and inspiration has quite literally changed my life.
-Pauline Mayers, Artistic Director - The Mayers Ensemble
You Can Start Today
With this intensive coaching experience,
you’ll be supported every step of the way as you build the habit of putting yourself first.
Your Investment
The full 4-week intensive is £999*.
Your investment in your future, your freedom, and your fulfilment.
*3 month instalment plan is available
Remember
The courage to put yourself first starts with trusting yourself. When you have clarity on what you want, the path ahead becomes energising, full of opportunity, and completely yours.
Agreeing to have a mentor was one of the best decisions I made but actually having Vicki Igbokwe-Ozoagu as my mentor, guiding and helping me find myself, is what has put me in good stead.
They say to motivate someone is to enthuse an interest in an individual but to empower is to gift someone with the tools to enable them to convert their interests into reality.
Vicki EMPOWERS, INSPIRES and AWAKENS the greatness in people, and I have been so lucky to have such a force of love and support helping me, help myself become the woman I am destined to be.
Vicki Igbokwe-Ozagu you are THE BEST!.”
Sitsofe Attah, Founder - Sitsofe Wellness
Frequently Asked Questions
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Coaching is a partnership designed to help you move from where you are now to where you want to be. It’s not about advice or quick fixes, it's about gaining clarity, building courage, and taking intentional action that aligns with your desires.
When you work with me, you step into a space where you’re fully seen, fully heard, and fully supported. If you’re ready to explore what’s possible, the next step is to answer these five questions. This gives both of us clarity and ensures we’re the right fit to move forward together.
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This is for you if you’re a creative or artistic woman who’s achieved success on the outside but feels like something is missing on the inside. Maybe you’re:
Overwhelmed, uninspired, or stuck despite everything you’ve accomplished.
Tired of putting yourself last and ready to prioritise your own needs and desires.
Ready to take action, commit to yourself, and experience real change.
If this resonates with you, I invite you to answer these five questions. I’ll personally review your answers and, if it feels like we’re a fit, I’ll invite you to a deeper call where we can explore what’s possible for you.tion
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Working with me is about more than achieving goals, it’s a transformative journey to rediscover your strength, clarity, and joy. Here’s what you can expect:
A Safe and Supportive Space
You’ll have a judgment free environment to share openly, reflect deeply, and explore your next steps. This is your space to be fully seen, heard, and supported.Bold, Expansive Thinking
We’ll explore possibilities you may not have considered before. You’ll think bigger, dream bigger, and stretch yourself lovingly, breaking free from old limitations.A Fun, Joyful Process
Growth doesn’t have to feel heavy. Coaching with me is energising and playful. We’ll laugh, reflect, and uncover insights that feel light yet deeply transformative. And while growth can include challenges, I’ve got you through every moment.Breakthroughs and Actionable Clarity
Each session will bring powerful shifts, whether it’s uncovering fresh perspectives, moving past fear, or stepping into bold action. You’ll leave feeling lighter, empowered, and ready to take your next step.Transformation in Action
This is about evolving. You’ll move from overwhelm and frustration to clarity, confidence, and control. You’ll embrace the mess, unlearn what no longer serves you, and emerge stronger, more aligned with yourself.
Your Next Step
If this resonates with you, I invite you to answer these five questions to share more about where you are and what you’re ready to step into. If I feel we’re a great fit, I’ll invite you to a private coaching call where we’ll dive deeper and explore what’s truly possible for you. -
The truth? You’ll know.
If you’ve been nodding along as you read this page, feeling that mix of excitement, readiness, and “this is exactly what I need”, then we’re already on the right track.
The next step is to answer these five questions. This isn’t just a formality; it’s part of the process to ensure we’re the right fit. If I believe we are, I’ll invite you to a call where you’ll get a real-time experience of my coaching and what’s possible when we work together.
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Once you answer the five questions:
I’ll personally review your responses to determine if this coaching intensive is the right next step for you.
If I believe we’re a great fit, I’ll invite you to a 30-minute coaching call. This isn’t a sales pitch, it’s a coaching experience. You’ll gain clarity, direction, and a true sense of what it would be like to work together.
If I don’t believe this intensive is the best fit for you, I’ll share recommendations for other paths or resources that may better align with your needs. Either way, I’ve got you.
I only invite clients who are ready to show up for themselves and take bold action. If that sounds like you, answer these five questions to take the next step.
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Results depend on your commitment to the process, but here’s what clients often experience:
A renewed sense of clarity, purpose, and confidence.
The ability to say “yes” to yourself and “no” to things that no longer serve you.
Freedom from resentment, overwhelm, and guilt.
A habit of putting yourself first, every single day.
My coaching helps you take the actions that create meaningful, lasting change. If you’re ready to prioritise yourself, answer these five questions and let’s get started.
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Answering these five questions is an important part of the process. It ensures that:
You’re ready for the kind of coaching I offer.
I’m the right coach to support you in creating the change you want.
Our time together, whether on a call or in the coaching intensive, is purposeful and focused on you.
If you’re serious about prioritising yourself and making lasting change, answer these five questions to take the next step.
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If you’re feeling nervous, take a deep breath and trust yourself. Nerves often mean you’re standing at the edge of something exciting. Your unique blend of fear and excitement is your breakthrough waiting to happen.
You’re feeling this way because the next step is asking you to step outside your comfort zone, which is rarely easy, but always necessary for growth.
This isn’t about being “ready” in the perfect sense, it’s about deciding that you’re worth showing up for you. Answering these five questions is a bold declaration: you’re ready to explore what’s possible and take a step toward the life you truly want.
If that resonates with you, even with the nerves, answer these five questions, and let’s see where this leads you.
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The coaching intensive lasts 4 consecutive weeks, providing you with a focused and transformative experience to kickstart the change you’ve been craving.
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I’m referring to women who have artistic and creative expertise in (but not limited to) performing arts, visual arts, literary arts, culinary arts, and fashion. This includes women working as:
Choreographers, writers, sculptors, dancers, producers, filmmakers
Artistic directors, general managers, hairstylists, makeup artists
Costume designers, education officers, music directors, and more
If you identify as an artistic or creative woman, answer these five questions. I'm here to support you in navigating the next phase of your journey.
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Yes, absolutely. This coaching intensive is specifically designed for established creative and artistic women who are looking for change. If you're feeling like it’s time to figure out what’s next for you, answer these five questions. I’m here to help guide you through that process.
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